A couple problems: betrayal, deny or confess?
The raw truth we prefer too often wait to comfortable illusions, perhaps telling that an adventure is not necessarily synonymous with a crisis of a couple , or that it was only for a time , the fact is that most of the people who betray , prefer to hide the betrayal, and then repeat it in the future . deny, deny, always. Except when it is caught in the act.
We want instead to confess , freeing his own sense of guilt, or by taking a step back to review the existing relationship .
A look at the statistics :
Also statistics of the market surveys (es performed by Incontri-Extraconiugali.com ) confirm the above with the following data : 48% of those who betray decides to keep quiet and hide , while only 13% lasts for a sincere and painful confession by addressing all of the consequences of the case.
According to experts , those who decide not to confess, he would do because he considers the betrayal is not due to problems within the couple, which is expected to remain strong ; on the contrary, who confesses , he would do it now, as the report is completed, and the betrayal is only the triggering event of breakage, weighed down by the problems of the couple.
It remains a 39% who had no choice because surprised on the fact partner, or by relatives and friends in common.
The statistical framework is noted, therefore, that a betrayal to the 52% of the cases is, however, discovered, or confessed
In the problems of torque between those who confesses, for the most part have had to say goodbye to the relationship that they had, while few others have decided to take forward the relationship with your partner ever, if it comes to infidelity to his face , argue the experts , you may even strengthen the union, in-depth analysis and solving the problems that led to the betrayal.
An extremely complex and articulated by an exponential growth of the two partners within themselves and within the couple .
Many adottattano forgiveness to bring in a new model of the couple, in which the treason of the individual partners to the transgression of the couple.
The question of the deny or confess, when there are relationship problems, it might seem a simple white or black, but it's not.
It is to be interpreted taking into account small variations
For example , have a love affair in parallel or a single adventure of a night are not exactly the same thing.
Sometimes a certain behavior hides the real upsets the inner personal or couple other times you simply have to do with deceit and falsehood, or even with the stupidity.
Something common, however, there is and it is extremely obvious . The betrayals contain a low content of respect , which should serve as a lesson and an opportunity to improve and/or change certain situations, making a big leap in personal growth, managing loneliness , taking responsibility and looking to the future in a constructive way and ordered .
In the problems of a couple, in conclusion: the feelings should not be judged, and there is not a code of ethics for all situations, and show that no margin of error how to act. The only rule is to be sincere and honest at least with yourself and ask, “why have I betrayed you?”, chiarendosi so their ideas on the relationship problems that exist for them to better face.
Why re-choose or close to it to open up to a new life of the couple , are two choices that lead to well-being and happiness.
