Rapporto di coppia a distanza: funzionano?Amore a distanza è possibile?
The cases of the life we lead, sometimes, to love the people who live far away from us, other times it may happen that two lovers have separated for reasons of force majeure...and so they live in a relationship at a distance.
It is possible that the love to continue or to flourish even when a large distance separating a couple in love?And, in particular, what conditions have the most influence on the relationship of the couple from a distance?
Love is a force so intense so claim the closeness, the contact, the presence of the person beloved in the life of the lover.
But when events such as the departure of one of the two, because enrollment in the university or for work, or to solve the economic problems of the film to separate the life of a couple, what happens and what hope is there that the couple's relationship couple survive ?
Personally, I have had the opportunity to experiment, often with pain, the couple's relationship at a distance.
In particular, what is the most traumatic is the absence of profound contact and the sharing of the growth.
In short, when you live together and close to the person you love, you grow and you evolve with you will create a sort of communion of the experiences and confront the daily thoughts and feelings, share joys and sorrows.
The distance is destroying everything in a single shot, depriving the love of the continuous, direct experience of enrichment, of sharing.
In particular, long phone calls will never be able to replace an intense hug, a caress, a long conversation eye to eye..
The couple's relationship distance tends to live and survive only thanks to the memories and stops, without evolving, at the moments prior to the separation.
Those who leave the love to live in another country or another city, in reality, is about to undergo a radical change of perspectives, visions and possibilities.
It is very likely that it will be enriched with many new experiences and maybe thanks to them and to the teachings of the new life to be lived to be a man or a woman best.
But these people renovated able or will want to still feel connected to the past, to something the fruit of a life that no longer share.
In fact I believe that the people and the meetings depend much on the circumstances, from the perspective, philosophy, and lifestyles. The experiences, our own view of the world influences the choice of those who know and how to develop relationships. If the conditions change within our beliefs, and our existence, also change the relationships with the people around you.
That being said, a crisis is possible when after so much time apart, in the few sporadic meetings, we realize that each evolved and grown in a fully autonomous manner, different, and very often we are located in front of people, changed who don't fit the same before the departure.
The distance means that each one to grow and face experiences in a manner independent from each other, with the risk of not finding a new meeting point for life in the couple's relationship. This is not to say that a couple truly in love can't survive the long months away, is meant to be only a personal opinion about the real difficulties that comes from living such a love. In fact, the more the love is strong, and the more likely it is that the lovers will do anything to get closer in the shortest possible time and at any cost, because from personal experience, if there is such an immense love is practically impossible to being far away.
I, however, believe that the many loves could prove to be the passions or the different feelings and not so powerful as to keep together the couple for too long. Therefore, the distance can be a test for love. Separates some couples and reinforces the other. The true love will not know being away for too long and will be reunited, or will decide not to leave, in those which prevail in the desire to discover, the desire to travel and to know new worlds, opportunities, and meeting new people, then l’ amore't slowly fade until it becomes a memory, soon supplanted by the’ ocean of news.
The questions that arise spontaneously at this point are:
Love and individual freedom compatible?
Love is eternal, or linked to time?
