{"id":242,"date":"2021-02-23T17:11:25","date_gmt":"2021-02-23T16:11:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ondup.com\/?p=242"},"modified":"2021-04-08T17:02:06","modified_gmt":"2021-04-08T15:02:06","slug":"psicologia-di-coppia-come-ci-scegliamo-lamore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ondup.com\/fr\/archives\/242","title":{"rendered":"Nous \u00e0 l&#039;int\u00e9rieur du couple: comment nous choisissons l&#039;amour"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><em><strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; J&#039;ai invent\u00e9 vous, comme vous l&#039;avez invent\u00e9 moi.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Nous avons besoin l&#039;un de l&#039;autre...&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/em><em><strong>Paul Eluard<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>Quand vous vous trouvez \u00e0 plusieurs reprises dans les m\u00eames situations au travail ou dans les relations, vous avez \u00e0 regarder \u00e0 l&#039;int\u00e9rieur de vous-m\u00eame et demandez-vous: \u201cquelle est ma contribution dans la cr\u00e9ation de ces situations que vous r\u00e9p\u00e9ter?\u201d.<\/h2>\n<p><b>demandez-vous: \u201cquelle est ma contribution dans la cr\u00e9ation de ces situations que vous r\u00e9p\u00e9ter?\u201d.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00catre adulte signifie<\/b>&nbsp;accepter la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 et d&#039;agir d&#039;une mani\u00e8re compatible avec le respect pour elle. Si vous n&#039;\u00eates pas d&#039;accord . votre responsabilit\u00e9, vous pouvez avoir confiance en eux-m\u00eames. Un \u00eatre humain adulte , dans le face \u00e0 des difficult\u00e9s, pensez \u00e0 la fa\u00e7on de r\u00e9soudre le probl\u00e8me, et quand il a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de suivre son propre chemin.<\/p>\n<p>De petits , en fait, nous d\u00e9pendons de ceux qui traitent avec nous pour nous donner de l&#039;amour, de soins et de survie. Ce lien vous permet de vous sentir heureuse et compl\u00e8te.<\/p>\n<p>La fa\u00e7on dont nos parents ont ador\u00e9 et la qualit\u00e9 de leurs relations avec nous dans la p\u00e9riode de l&#039;enfance, de devenir le mod\u00e8le de la plus tard les relations amoureuses.<\/p>\n<p>Cela dit, on peut aussi dire que le mod\u00e8le relationnel acquis dans l&#039;enfance d\u00e9crites pr\u00e9c\u00e9demment ne peut pas devenir une justification pour ce qui et de vivre et de construire \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e2ge adulte .<\/p>\n<p>Il est de notre droit et le devoir d&#039;\u00e9voluer dans notre voyage , de travailler pour nous-m\u00eames et nos relations futures , parce que pour \u00eatre un mod\u00e8le pour corriger consciemment pour nous, laissant toute autre forme de faux climatisation.<\/p>\n<p>Dans le couple<b>&nbsp;besoins<\/b>&nbsp;pas satisfaits, ils apportent de la peur et de la douleur. Et, dans notre na\u00efvet\u00e9 enfantine, nous n&#039;avons pas la moindre id\u00e9e de la fa\u00e7on de surmonter le sentiment d&#039;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Comme une r\u00e9ponse, alors, nous adoptons les m\u00e9canismes de gestion des primitives, allant de pleurer pour obtenir de l&#039;attention, de retirer ou de refuser m\u00eame \u00e0 certains besoins.<\/p>\n<p>Au cours de l&#039;enfance, qui prend soin de nous, en nous apprenant \u00e0 s&#039;adapter \u00e0 la soci\u00e9t\u00e9. Nous, les observateurs, et mall\u00e9able, nous apprenons comment faire pour recevoir de l&#039;amour et de l&#039;acceptation.<\/p>\n<p><b>Nous apprendre \u00e0 supprimer et de ne pas se conformer \u00e0 ces pi\u00e8ces que la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 consid\u00e8re inacceptables pas digne de l&#039;amour. Nous avons tous \u00e9t\u00e9 bless\u00e9s au cours de l&#039;enfance, certains plus, certains moins de, et certaines parties de notre vraie nature ont \u00e9t\u00e9 supprim\u00e9s dans notre inconscient.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Le lien \u00e9motionnel que nous avons eu avec ceux qui nous traite est un mod\u00e8le de ce qui allait devenir la qualit\u00e9 de nos relations amoureuses plus tard: la capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 s&#039;ouvrir aux autres, \u00e0 g\u00e9rer le stress, d\u00e9velopper l&#039;estime de soi, \u00e9lever des b\u00e9b\u00e9s, et ainsi de suite.<br \/>\nLe type d&#039;attachement que nous avons connu a un impact significatif qui dure toute une vie: devenir grand, nous avons un travail et des responsabilit\u00e9s, et il reste encore quelques pi\u00e8ces qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 pu\u00e9ril et ont besoin de grandir.<\/p>\n<p>En couple pour vivre une vie pleine, nous avons besoin pour nous d\u00e9velopper, avec l&#039;amour et non pas guid\u00e9 par la peur et l&#039;anxi\u00e9t\u00e9.<br \/>\nD\u00e9velopper puis trois styles d&#039;attachement:<b><i>&nbsp;s\u00e9curis\u00e9, l&#039;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9, l&#039;\u00e9vitement, l&#039;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9, le ambivalente r\u00e9sistant<\/i><\/b><i>.<\/i>&nbsp;Chacun d&#039;eux produit des diff\u00e9rentes formes de relations intimes, les diff\u00e9rentes fa\u00e7ons de s&#039;engager, de trouver et d&#039;\u00eatre vous-m\u00eame et dans la relation avec l&#039;autre.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>&nbsp;La fixation s\u00fbre-pour l&#039;amour du bon c\u00f4t\u00e9:<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>les gens qui l&#039;ont v\u00e9cu, sont relativement faciles \u00e0 obtenir proches les uns des autres.<\/p>\n<p>Ils sont \u00e0 l&#039;aise avec les autres, et m\u00eame lorsque les autres \u00e0 faire face avec eux. Devenir des adultes confiants qui ne se soucient pas trop \u00eatre ni abandonn\u00e9s, ni peur de cr\u00e9er de l&#039;intimit\u00e9 avec la personne qu&#039;ils aiment.<\/p>\n<p><b>La personne avec un attachement s\u00e9curis\u00e9 sera dirig\u00e9 vers le peuple pour le plus s\u00fbr, d\u00e9montrant clairement leurs sentiments<\/b>et \u00e0 part, dans une communication, la fois triste et heureux de sa propre existence, afin de confirmer sa propre perception de la personne m\u00e9rite d&#039;\u00eatre aim\u00e9 et soign\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>L\u2019 attachement ins\u00e9cure \u00e9vitant amour-froid\/d\u00e9tach\u00e9:<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>mal \u00e0 l&#039;aise d&#039;\u00eatre proches les uns des autres, ont de la difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 faire confiance et \u00e0 trouver qu&#039;il est difficile de se permettre de d\u00e9pendre de quelqu&#039;un.<br \/>\nCes personnes d\u00e9favoris\u00e9es,<b>&nbsp;au contraire, les parties s\u00fbr, ne pas d\u00e9velopper leur personnalit\u00e9, \u00e0 compter de la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 d&#039;une base de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 \u00e0 laquelle se r\u00e9f\u00e9rer, en d&#039;autres termes, ne pas tirer profit d&#039;une quelconque fa\u00e7on, mais affective.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Par cons\u00e9quent, la formation de<i>&nbsp;\u201c...Un mod\u00e8le mental de l&#039;individu comme une personne qui n&#039;est pas digne de l&#039;amour, qui doit compter que sur lui-m\u00eame, et un mod\u00e8le mental de la m\u00e8re comme une mauvaise personne de quoi ne pas s&#039;attendre \u00e0 quoi que ce soit.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Ils se sentir nerveux quand quelqu&#039;un s&#039;approche de trop pr\u00e8s, leur vie sera bas\u00e9e sur un d\u00e9sir de conqu\u00eate d&#039;une autonomie personnelle et d&#039;auto-suffisance qui pourraient, le cas \u00e9ch\u00e9ant, l&#039;appel \u00e0 l&#039;autre, consid\u00e9r\u00e9 comme indigne de confiance des individus et sur lequel contar un peu.<br \/>\nCette v\u00e9ritable strat\u00e9gie de vie, dans la r\u00e9alit\u00e9, n&#039;est rien de plus qu&#039;une mesure de pr\u00e9vention contre les risques de d\u00e9ception, en raison de l&#039;exp\u00e9rience de tous les d\u00e9chets.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>L\u2019 attachement ins\u00e9cure ambivalent r\u00e9sistant-l&#039;obsession de l&#039;amour:<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Dans le domaine de l&#039;amour, que personne ne sera \u00e0 plusieurs reprises \u00eatre emport\u00e9 par le tourbillon de la passion, de la pens\u00e9e que vous avez trouv\u00e9 la bonne personne.<\/p>\n<p><b>En r\u00e9alit\u00e9, vous rencontrerez ces id\u00e9alisations excessif de personnes qui ont, au contraire, ces traits de caract\u00e8re qu&#039;il a lui-m\u00eame d\u00e9teste. Alors seulement, vous vous rendrez compte que vous avez commis une erreur dans le choix, et \u00e0 ce point, de subir des irr\u00e9m\u00e9diablement.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nous avons \u00e9galement soutenu que l&#039;enfant qui vit une relation avec une m\u00e8re impr\u00e9visible, d\u00e9veloppe des mod\u00e8les de l&#039;auto, comme une personne \u00e0 aimer une fa\u00e7on discontinue, par intermittence.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c0 partir de ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 dit, il s&#039;ensuit que, \u00e0 l&#039;int\u00e9rieur d&#039;une relation amoureuse, adulte, lorsque l&#039;emporter sera de mod\u00e8les positifs de l&#039;auto, comme une personne digne d&#039;amour, vous serez profond\u00e9ment aim\u00e9 et respect\u00e9 par les partenaires, mais quand va prendre sur le n\u00e9gatif de mod\u00e8les de l&#039;auto, comme une personne vuln\u00e9rable et pas digne de l&#039;amour, alors il sera facile \u00e0 glisser dans le tunnel de la jalousie extr\u00eame, donnant vie \u00e0 une relation obsessionnelle, possessif.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00catre adulte signifie<\/b>&nbsp;accepter la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 et d&#039;agir d&#039;une mani\u00e8re compatible avec le respect pour elle. Si vous n&#039;\u00eates pas d&#039;accord . votre responsabilit\u00e9, vous pouvez avoir confiance en eux-m\u00eames. Un homme, dans le visage de difficult\u00e9s, pensez \u00e0 la fa\u00e7on de r\u00e9soudre le probl\u00e8me, et quand il a d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de suivre son propre chemin.<\/p>\n<p>nous allons essayer de comprendre le sens<\/p>\n<p>Nous commen\u00e7ons \u00e0 accepter la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 telle que v\u00e9cue et pour \u00eatre coh\u00e9rent avec ce , laissez-nous analyser , sans peur et sans compromis, sans voiles ou des masques .<\/p>\n<p>Prenons notre responsabilit\u00e9 , le pouvoir d&#039;\u00eatre en mesure d&#039;\u00eatre en mesure de le faire pour donner de la lumi\u00e8re \u00e0 quelque chose qui sera demain .<\/p>\n<p>Pourquoi \u00eatre un adulte moyens de faire des choix \u00e9clair\u00e9s.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Ho inventato te come tu hai inventato me. 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